Friday, December 18, 2009
Boiling
It's amazing that you can treat someone better than they will ever be treated. Better than they had. Support them through one of the most difficult times in their life, be promised the world, promised a family, promised a life and when you decide that it's too much, that those promises are empty and that your life isn't what you want, you become the bad guy.
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Big, huge (((hugs))).
Hang in there. You know the truth and you're doing the right thing for yourself. And you are loved.
I'm sorry, Sweetheart! You are not the bad guy, and someone trying to make you into that makes them the emotionally irresponsible, oblivious guy.
It seems that placing the blame has become a crutch for the emotionally unaccoutable.
Promising forever was done with the highest of hopes and best of intentions. It wasn't a blank check for you to be mistreated.
That is her confusion!
You did all you could for her except continue to sacrifice your sanity and happiness for a dead end relationship.
Doing what is best for yourself is your triumph. Staying so that you won't be labeled the bad guy would've just led to more of your own unhappiness.
I am proud of you, that you are your own person and that you are taking responsibility for your life, your happiness and your future.
C
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