Throughout life people come and go. The most difficult ones to accept going are the ones that you truly thought were your friends. The ones that you would have done anything for. The ones that when people talked badly about them, you stood up for them. You understood where they were in life. The people that told you they were on your side and believed in you and thought you were a good person. These people are the ones that when you look from the outside you realize they weren't worth sticking up for because when the opportunity arises, they will jump ship and side with those who are as two faced as themselves.
Although it has been difficult to watch happen I am trying to be grateful for the learning experience. I feel sorry for my "friends" that are now surrounded by people who talked badly about them for years. Who spend their time with others that didn't understand their other friends or where they are from, and some of them were horrible to me, their "friend."
I am glad that I am growing. I am glad that I am learning. I am glad that I am honest and real and those are my expectations for all of the people I surround myself with in the future.
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Part of growing up is learning that you deserve to be treated with love and kindness and respect.
When there are people in your life that don't or can't do that, then you have let that bridge fall.
I think that you are the most amazing, wonderful person that I've ever known, and I only want you to let people in that will take care with your heart.
You are worth it in so many ways, and it breaks my heart to watch what you are still going through.
I love you, Kim.
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